Hi everyone, it's me again.
An Unicorn
My life have never been so full of colours without the presence of Covid-19. Don't get me wrong, I'm not implying that the pandemic is something that we should celebrate for but rather be united and fight against it so that all of us can relive our usual routine in our lives.
With the whole covid situation, I was forced to still do something I like without sacrificing on my interest and what I aim to become in the future.
However, we all should know that it isn't a breeze to find a job, much less a job that you aspire to be at.
Hence, I started out as a warehouse admin where we process documents and send the products for shipping.
If you have read my previous post 《工厂的。》,you would much or less know that I had a lot of grievances for this job.
But the fact is that the job wasn't the issue. It was the people or rather....person.
Clearly I was bullied and I was upset about it. Why the hell was my treatment special? Well, sure I was a bully material. But that doesn't mean I am a pushover.
Honestly I felt very indignant for being bullied and earn that pathetic amount of pay. But who would know at the end of the day, the 3 months of working there might have paid off through all the things I learnt there. It wasn’t only the hard skills that I have learnt there but all thanks to this particular woman, I acknowledge that such bad management do exist and you can actually survive in a company without any valuable skills if you know how to wing it through enough.
Leech
On another note, I was thankful that the agent that coordinated with the warehouse to get me the admin job convinced me that agents only care about their money. Nothing else. Useless piece of leeching trash.
Then 3 months past (I would very much like to say ‘in the blink of an eye‘ but no, it was painful), I moved on to this company that I innocently thought I may not have a brighter prospect but perhaps learn more hard skills there.
Man, I was utterly wrong. I laughed to the death of me when I sawhow the other receptionists over there worked. Impressive. A round of applause for them please.
There are some things in life that seniority doesn’t matter. For instance, you close the door after you or you use a spoon and not a spade to eat. I am not saying you can’t use a spade to eat. Whatever floats your boat hunnie, but wouldn’t it be more convenient to eat with a spoon because it’s smaller and it can fit into your mouth better?
A cross junction
Thanks for letting me know once again, you do not need to be committed to what you are doing and instead of thinking of ways to improve the way you work, you think of ways to backstab people, put on a facet and throw your weight to boss people around.
How I wish I could have stayed out of their mess and do my work as I was supposed to do. Though without all their drama, I would not have been so determined to leave that post and eventually found a job at Serangoon Broadway as their events executive.
On a side note, I have also wrote an article on my entire experience with that company titled 《粪池·脑袋》.
I guess it wasn’t that bad after all that mayhem. I thank them for granting me a higher threshold to deal with such horrible people in the future. Also looking at how hideous humans could look not even knowing what your ultimate aim is abstains and reminds me constantly to not become the person that I dislike and would highly retch when I interact with them.
Lessons I have learnt
It isn’t easy to be a good person, because no matter how great of a person you are, there will still be people who are secretly jealous of you and hate you publicly; but that doesn’t mean you need to be a cunning little fox, creeping up on people to backstab them like how predators sneak up on their preys.
In my opinion, we do not need to take revenge on the person who wasted all their time to plot against us. Simply because they are not worthy of our time.
Inferiority
People who would spend all their time to plot against you are feeling inferior deep down. Hence, instead of stooping at their level, why not make full use of the time to become more capable than them so that we can prevent them from doing bad deeds.
Be kind
It doesn’t hurt to be kind but it hurts to bring misfortune upon someone. You might not feel it now but you will eventually see it in the long run.
Be kind, but don’t let people trample or step all over you. When someone does that to you, that is probably the time to stand up for yourself and make a decision.
Yup, it may not apply to everyone but that’s solely my opinion from all the people I have met as well as things I have been through during this trying period.
In conclusion
Everyone has a different upbringing which in turn results in a difference between all of us. There will be people who genuinely care for you but there will also be the opposite. It’s probably the most easy to identify the genuine ones when you are at your lowest.
It’s a tough period for me and I know it isn’t easy for everyone else. I believe that my dream will come true one day if I continue to work towards it even though I might not be doing the same thing as before.
Lastly if you have read till this point, I would like to thank you for taking your time to read this blog post.
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